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Saturday, October 2, 2010
childrens voices
Not many know what a teenager could do to save another, but if you look really close you'll see that before we ever go to an adult we always go to our closest wisest friend. I dont think I'm very wise, I don't know why they come to me, but I am here to help any child or teenager who feels they don't have a voice in this world. Its okay to say out loud how you feel and its okay to be afraid to say what others would think is stupid. Most adults don't listen because they don't think its all that serious. But if its important to you than I am here to listen to you.
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Sitting, waiting for my cousin to come over, i am watching him for tonight. He's absolutely adorable. i love my family, and i know everyone else does too.
ReplyDeleteMy friend came over today and we were sitting there and he asked me to help him with something, i said okay thinking he needed to talk, but instead i ended up with rubber gloves and a shovel. he found a dead possum in the street and he didnt want any kids to see it and get sick because they wanted to play with it. so we moved it out of the way on order of the animal shelter dispatch, we sat and laughed and talked, i was so happy he's an amazing friend and one of the most funniest people i've ever met. I love all of my friends, but i love my two best friends the most, thanks for being there to hold me up when i wasnt strong, and i will be there for you when you need me. i love you guys. tell me bout your best friends and why you love them.
So why do we depend on people who can come and go out of our lives?
ReplyDeleteI guess its a test to see if people really love us or if people are just saying things. You know that some one cares about you, and will stay when they stick by you during a huge breakdown.
I know that when my ex (who was my first love) dumped me at my friends birthday party I was a total wreck, I kept crying the whole night. She didn't say much but sometimes she would just put her arm around me to let me know that she's there. That's all I needed, and that's how I knew she was really there for me.
So why do we depend on people who can come and go in our lives? Because its us checking to see if we are going to have those people after we graduate and during hard times, who ever stays there when you need them most are your true friends. And those who only talk to you when they need something is only using you, find friends who will always be there. Start with me, I am here when you need me or if you just want to talk about anything fun, friends are here for fun and hard times, find your middle point and keep it.
Girls this one's kinda for you, guys can relate to it as well.
ReplyDeleteSo let's say you really like a guy, he's a really close friend of yours and so is his best friend. Well you and your best friend (lets call him jimmy) so you and jimmy are talking and everything is going great, until your other best friend(lets call him chris) chris tells you that he's fallen hard for you. What are you going to do. How do you tell one of your two best friends that you don't feel that way without making things awkward?
Well nothing has to be awkward, if he really cares as much as he says he does than nothing should be awkward between the three of you. Just listen to me now, all that should matter to him as your friend and as some one who says he cares about you, he should just be happy as long as you are. I know its hard to tell one of your closest friends that you don't love them quite like they love you.
Just because you say you love them doesn't mean you're in love with them. Remember to always tell your friends the truth, even if there's a chance it'll hurt them. They'll learn one day that you told them because you care.
If you wander what kind of a person you would've been if you hadn't of ruined your own life, don't focus on it. Its not fair to you or the people around you. If you ruined your life the people around you wouldn't have stayed long enough to love the way you are now.
ReplyDeleteSo before you think back to I wish I had never changed, think about the amazing friends you gained through your change, and learn to love yourself the way every one else has learned to love you.